I didn't realise it depended on what white played. Thanks I am still unsure on opening names. It did say Fred on the Openings database but I did change the moves from white's side to get the moves I normally make and it said it was the Dutch then.

Wel i am Freddy and i am Dutch so i like it both  

This is not the Dutch. The dutch can only be played if white plays d4 on his first move. What you played is known as the "Fred". *Edit* Jkarp, if you look at the Gameknot database this opening is called "The Fred."

The name of this opening is "The Fred" and highly ill advised as an opening move against such a strong opponent. If he hadn't given his queen in the first few moves to reduce the damage, this game would have ended much sooner.

It's just an irregular move, and not very sound

Wow the "Fred" This move is irregular as ken states, It opens your King to a check by white if he Qh5+.

Actually Joe Freddy let me see that! You do go on a bit but I have to take a better look at it. Seems your opening got shot to pieces too.

This is only move that can be made it is forced.

Better move for a possible check mate against "the Fred" opening Black played would be Be2. You would have to give yourself an escape route for your King by moving up your e or d pawn. The taking of the Queen as jkarp mentions is a Q sacrifice (sac). To take is a mistake.

It is important to realize that the extra queen means 100x more than the doubled pawns. The doubled pawns only matter when the game is even, or close to even.

Easy Fred is just giving you Q odds, but in a way that is easier for the odds giver than the traditional way, which is probably not available on gameknot. The traditional way of giving odds was that white would start with an empty d1 square, with no queen. This way white is a queen down, but he has a shattered king-side to attack, something he would not have had the old-fashioned way.

Nf6 instead of taking his Queen doesn't seem right, you would not do anything to gain material. To take is a mistake sometimes. You have no developed minor pieces, doubled pawns on the h-file, hanging pawn of the f-file. I would of declined the queen sac and played Nf6.

i dont get the point of giving up the queen here i think he is just insulting you playing this system sorry. i would defo take the queen here

Joe I just played my normal moves as Freddy said. I already made that move before I took the queen.

Black is NOT in danger here. There is no weakest pawn on the board.

Whites bishop isn't that happy, it's blocking the white d pawn which in turn is blocking in whites DSB, I'm quite sure it will be moved soon.

You've given white a gift unnecessarily. He now has attacking chances and a B for his Q, and you didn't make him earn the bishop!

There is plenty for white to attack. He will attack on the white squares, and nearly all of them near your king are weak and undefended.

White must surely be tempted by Be6 (which will force the rook to move again) as it completely blocks in the black king and will be difficult for black to get rid of.

the bishop on f5 is going to have something to say about castling queenside.

It also blocks your bishop in on f8.